When you finally get it that the Universe is only answering your vibration, then you understand that if you are victim to anything, it's only your haphazard offering of vibration.
The real desire that is being born within you is, "I want to vibrate on purpose. I want to set my Tone. I want to conclude and decide and offer it consistently and then watch the results of it."
You cannot get it done, ever, and you cannot get it wrong.
So you might as well relax and start having fun with this.
~From an Abraham-Hicks workshop in 1998