You might say, "How do I know if I'm in a receiving mode or not?"
And we say, you always feel good when you're in a receiving mode.
When someone offers you a compliment, do you receive it,
or do you sort of just shrug it off?
There's something about believing that you must justify your existence through your effort or through your perseverance, through your struggle.
And many of you just have not practiced the receiving mode.