Some things you're not letting happen right now because the timing isn't perfect for you. All things, as they are happening, are happening in perfect order. And if you will relax and begin saying, "Everything is unfolding in its perfect time. And I'm enjoying where I am now, in relationship to where I'm going. Content where I am, and eager for more," that is the perfect vibrational stance.
Noticing how things are turning out for you is one very clear way of understanding which Vibrational requests you are emanating, because you always get the essence of what you are thinking about, whether you want it or not.